James 4:1

"What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don't they come from your desires that battle within you? 2You want something but don't get it. You kill and covet, but you cannot have what you want. You quarrel and fight. You do not have, because you do not ask God. 3When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures."

Come to the Lord with a clean heart in everything you do. You are a temple to the Lord since Jesus' death when he destroyed the temple and rebuilt it in 3 days in the hearts of everyone who believes. God is always with you, be always with him.

James 4:11

"Brothers, do not slander one another. Anyone who speaks against his brother or judges him speaks against the law and judges it. When you judge the law, you are not keeping it, but sitting in judgment on it. 12There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you—who are you to judge your neighbor?"

Isaiah 8:20

"To the law and to the testimony! If they do not speak according to this word, they have no light of dawn."

By this should you judge all things, whether they are according to the Word of God or not.